Faith

I used to believe in destiny, you know? I’d go to the bagel place, see a pretty girl in line, reading my favorite novel, whistling the song that’s been stuck in my head all week. And I would think “Hey, maybe she’s the one.” Now I think “I just know that bitch is going to take the last whole wheat everything bagel”. I stopped believing. It’s just everyday I believe a little less, and a little less, and that sucks. What do I do about that Scherbatsky
Started as I watch How I met your mother season 7. There's a quote that had me thinking, yeap the above quote had me thinking that Ted's life is just like mine, you know when you had that kind of faith that you will find yourself enjoying life with the girl of your life, the dream job, etc?
I had that kind of faith for sometime, and like Ted, I'm losing it. In that serial, Ted have Scherbatsky to make sure he keep believing, but me? I have no one to support me, so sad, but that's the inevitable fact. I just wish I had someone to keep me believing. I want to keep believing.

What can parents actually do?

Watching Arsenal every week make me wonder, does Wenger (Coach) has done all his best to make hist team the best?

Reading every blog about Arsenal, everyone has different conclusion about that, one said that Wenger has done nothing to make sure his team wins, and the other said that everything the best out of Wenger is useless if the Arsenal lads won't do the best.

That reminds me about people all around the world. We tend to blame everyone, or I can say blame any thing for our failure, and sometimes people said that's their parents fault.
I quoted some of their words,

"My father isn't a rich man, so I don't get proper education."

Some people said

"My parent don't have enough time for me, so I used drugs for my pleasure."

I have many friends that have the same problem with the people who said that kind of things. But actually, what can our parents do for us? They have give everything for us, but if we ourselves don't want to do our best, it's all nothing.

We all decide what we will be, we can do something if we want, but the key is THE SMALL STEP that we take. Don't blame our parent, friends, teacher for our miserable life, you must accept the fact that we make ourselves miserable, not them. If you have the same problem, and you said that kind of thing, please think for a while, what actually our parent can do? They can only give you the best, give all they have for you, cheering you up when you're down, and you blame them?

So? You answer it yourselves, who can decide for your life? What can your parents do?